I spent some time away from home this week. I went to see Sabrina since we're not sure how much longer she'll be with us.
I guess we have a weird relationship. She's a few years older than me and used to babysit me and my brother. Our moms used to be best friends. Needless to say - we spent some time together when we were younger. As we grew up and grew apart we lost touch, but reconnected on here a couple of years ago. I saw her a couple of times before she left Alabama and it was always great hanging out with her and catching up. Though I lived a much more sheltered life than she did and you would think we don't have much in common, we can literally sit and talk for hours on end. I don't know if it's because we share so much history or what, but she feels more like family than anything else to me.
We talked on the phone not long ago and she mentioned me coming to visit now that she lives in Phoenix. I thought about it and decided to go. I'm not working or anything at the moment so why the hell not? I spent a few days with her, the pups, and her friend / roommate Beth. It was a really fun time. My last night there especially felt like a slumber party and it was awesome. We did nails, karaoke in the bedroom, ordered pizza, listened to music, and just talked and enjoyed each other's company. I've promised her that if she's still kicking on her birthday in May that I'll come back for a pool party.
I didn't see much of Arizona except for my drive to Phoenix and back, but that's ok - I went to see Sabrina. Arizona will be there. I will say that I drove through some mountainous areas that were gorgeous. The first silhouette of a Saguaro I saw against the sunset on the mountain made me feel like I could die happy. Then there was a forest of them! I loved seeing the yards full of cacti and palm trees. It felt like a whole new world. I would love to take the kids and Shaun and go explore. Maybe we will one day. Anyway, this was the first time I drove hundreds of miles away from home and back by myself and it felt pretty liberating. I felt free.
Overall, I am grateful for the whole experience. I am really glad I got to see my friend while I still could and I hope it's not the last time I do. I would much rather have this time with her than a bunch of regrets about missed opportunities after she's gone. Here are some photos of us and the pups. We basically lived in pajamas the whole time I was there so pardon our fanciness. I hope it's not too much for y'all to handle. 😂
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Me, Sabrina, and Jerseybell |
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Me and Beth. I don't know what I'm doing with my face. 😂 |
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Me and Sambosy. He gives big wet smooches. |