I'm usually a watcher.

I'm usually a watcher. I observe people. I rarely interact unless I like a person. I'm great at staying in my lane and living and letting live. It's your life. Do what you want.

But... I woke up and chose violence today. I don't understand the audacity of some people. Especially "men."

First comment is something I wrote to a person who posts a lot and I really don't think he knows how much he actually says in those posts. He's always lamenting the fact that he can't find a partner who is loyal. He thinks he's smart and a "damn good man" and like... Why? Why do you think so highly of yourself? Because you're "loyal" (which is the bare minimum you should be able to offer in a relationship)? Because you can admit your mistakes? That's good. But have you learned anything? Doesn't look like it from where I sit. You've been in the same struggling-ass position for years and things are not improving that I can tell.

If you were ACTUALLY a damn good man, someone would want to be with you. That's just facts. You're not as good as you think you are.

The second screenshot is of a guy who friended me sometime back. He immediately wanted to video chat and I didn't because I don't know him like that and don't care. Attitude right off was like I owed him my time and attention because he tried to pay his (unwanted) attention to me. Then he started asking for money, and telling me to hide the "loan" from Shaun. Like, what the actual fuck? I'm pretty sure he's just out here scamming whoever he can. If you get a friend request from him, the fact that I am a mutual is not an endorsement. He has one more time to ask me for anything and he's blocked.

Then there's one more person who also needs to chill. I don't owe them my time. I have helped them plenty. I'm happy to play nice, but I feel like they're trying to manipulate me at this point and I'm not stupid. I see it. There's nothing else I can do for you right now. So if you read this and the shoe fits, lace that bitch up and wear it.

I'm off to put down my floor. I'm not playing around on the the phone or internet today.