Scooter used to do this...

Scooter used to do this when he didn't want to come in.  But then he would scream like I was killing him when I picked him up.  So dramatic.  😂😂😂  I miss that boy every day.  ❤

I took off my nail polish last night...

I took off my nail polish last night because it was peeling and I was gonna wreck my nails if I didn't.  Now I'm torn - polish or sleep?  I want both.  🙃

These are the screens of my devices currently.

These are the screens of my devices currently. LOOK HOW CLEAN AND PRETTY! I love it when things are organized and not cluttered. This is definitely how I want to start summer semester in 10 DAYS.  😃

SERENITY NOW!

Since money is tight...

Since money is tight and I can't afford (and actually don't even need) a new phone - I gave mine a makeover.  🙂

I uninstalled a bunch of apps I don't use anymore (including Reef Polling from Physics ☹️) and I bought a new high-speed HD card to be integrated as internal storage instead of using a slower one as portable storage.  I also bought a new glass screen protector since my not-glass one was peeling up and looking gross.

The Good News:  I put that fancy new screen-protector down PERFECTLY - and in record time.  No fuzz, no bubbles, nothing.  No having to peel it back up a couple of hundred times to align it correctly - just BLAM!  Done.  😮😮😮😁😁😁  It's probably ridiculous how accomplished that makes me feel, but my perfectionist tendencies are so soothed right now.  😝

The (kinda) Bad News:  I accidentally broke my case when I took it off my phone to insert the new SD card.  BUT, I've been feeling pretty unhappy with it for a while now anyway.  It's clear (was meant to have photos inserted under it, but I never bothered) so crud would get up under it and it would look pretty gross.  Since a phone make-over can't be complete without a new case anyway I found one I liked on Amazon and it should be here on Monday.  😁

Now all I have to do is change my home screen to something else and what do you know?  Feels new to me!  🙂  It's faster, it looks better, yet it has all of my apps already the way I want them - all for </= $40.  Woohoo!  😃

Despite my best efforts...

Despite my best efforts - I am up! I've been awake since 5-something. Who am I? 😳🙃😂

I am SO not a morning person, but...

I am SO not a morning person, but we got a call saying that Shadow was getting an award and to come to Awards Day if we could (and also that the award was a surprise).  He brought home the choir trophy yesterday because his choir teacher wasn't going to be there for Awards Day so I knew there must be something else he was getting.

When he brought home the trophy I asked him about Awards Day and he said that he was pretty sure he wasn't getting anything because he was "just an average student."  Gotta tell y'all - that hurt my heart.  Shadow is plenty smart, but I can tell that he doesn't enjoy school like I do.  While a lot of parents expect for their children to be miniature versions of themselves, I do not.  I love and appreciate Shadow the way he is and I am so proud of him for all of his achievements.

So aside from the choir trophy he received this Certificate of Achievement in Algebra with Finance.  Gotta say - I was not expecting that.  Not because he's not smart, but I guess it was a class that he didn't complain about nor was it as exciting as choir so it was just never brought up.  I suppose that meant he was doing well!  🙂

In addition to that he was recognized for participating in Writer's Bowl back in October.  He was on the team that won first place.  He got a neat little medal for that, but I have no idea where it is stashed now so it's not in this picture.  😕

Anyway, I'm super proud of him and that was totally worth getting up early for.  😃❤❤❤

I find it gross when a married person...

Maybe it's just me, but I find it gross when a married person (outside of the context of speaking to someone who might not know who this person is to you) calls their spouse "my husband" or "my wife" almost exclusively instead of by their name.  This is something that has annoyed me for years both IRL and online, so it's directed at no one in particular.

But to y'all who do this:  Does marriage mean that you now posses that person and they are no longer worthy of having a name as an individual person?  Or are you just trying to make sure that everyone knows you got someone to marry you?  🤣🤣🤣  For real tho, it's like a little kid with a new toy.  We know, we see it, now please go and play with it somewhere else for a while.

It goes for other family members, too.  I don't walk around saying "my son" when referring to Shadow because generally speaking friends and coworkers know that he exists.  He is a person with a name, not something that I view as a belonging.  I don't even think I've legit said out loud to anyone that Shaun is "my fiancé" because he is still Shaun regardless of anything else.  If someone was unclear I would say that we are engaged, but if I am speaking to friends, family, or coworkers, then they probably already know and there would be no confusion when using his name.

Maybe I am just weird and I read too much into things.  I feel like words are powerful, though, and I'm always questioning things.  I mean, not using someone's name seems like a slight against their person-hood or individuality.  I never wanted to be called "Mom" but between family, daycare, and school, that is what happened.  I'm not mad about it, but I'm far more than "Mom" and I'm far more than "someone's fiancée" or "someone's daughter" or "someone's sister" or what have you.  I am definitely no one's possession.  Establish our relationship to your new audience once then proceed to call me by my name again.

I think with marriage it might be particularly upsetting to me because of how much of it throws back to a time when women were treated as objects.  I mean the traditions of being given away, of only the women being marked with engagement rings, etc.; that whole deal is just icky to me.  So repeated possessiveness in relationships really rubs me the wrong way.  And unfortunately, I don't view it as women taking it back to say "my husband" all the time... it's just the flip side of the issue to me and still no less an issue.

Ok, so that's a ramble.  I am home sick from work today.  I woke up and started barfing so I've been trying to take my mind off of how terrible I feel by thinking, I guess.  😂  There are far worse ways to pass the time, I suppose.  If you have differing opinions or different views I'm open to discussion.  I won't be on here constantly because I feel like crap, but I will definitely check in and respond.

Anyway, for all of you married folks that haven't forgotten your spouse's name, y'all the real MVP's.  ❤  I like how you do.  😃